Better Late Than Ever!
Hey everyone! What I mean by this title is that I am fully over my toxic ex-friend. As a matter of fact, I have been over her for quite some time.
But while I must feel that way, I must proceed with caution when talking to mutual friends as well as sharing information online. Of course I chitchat with them a little bit, but there is no way that I will allow myself to travel with them in the same vehicle to any party or venue that they invite me to. If I am required to travel with them, my immediate answer will be no.
This is in wake to a situation that occurred in the Philippines. A celebrity entertainer named Vhong Navarro was badly beaten by a group of people after just one person lured him into an apartment. Thus, I must mention that you must make yourself fully aware of the location and the purpose of the party or venue before traveling to it. Also know how to get in and out as quickly and safely as possible.
And if you do meet someone who invites you to go elsewhere with them, DO NOT DO IT!
My Life Now
I have to admit, after hanging out with this friendship gang, I found myself pursuing a very active college career. Not only am I taking my required subjects, but I am also participating in multiple clubs and organizations. I am also planning to join a sports team!
As for dating, I got into a brief one but the two of us realized that we were too busy for it in the first place. We're good friends now, and I expect to keep it that way. Of course there's the "What if this friend is like my last close friend?" thinking going on in my mind, but to be honest that cannot be the case. I never told this new friend about it, because it causes way too much drama.
People around me are very kind, friendly, and encouraging. I can tell you so many wonderful stories about my college life- despite this only being my second semester!
Oh, and I also befriended another person who looks just like my toxic ex! However, she's a lot more open and kind and very supportive when I need to talk!
Uncertainty Still Exists Though
And my toxic friend? Only saw her once, but that was moments after we passed by. I was too busy thinking to myself about a club activity that I did not even see her face. Don't really care if she saw me or whatever, because she's the past and I intend to keep her that way.
And the rest of the gang? Turns out our closest mutual also angered her and the toxic ex wants nothing to do with her. To be honest, if I did see that close friend I'd probably just say "Hi!" and move on. I am highly unsure whether the stuff the mutual (The one I still see on Facebook) says is true or not. For all I know they can be creeping around the hood planning a surprise attack on me.
Although there is a possibility that in the future where it may happen, I am not afraid to say "Bring it on!"
And with that, I conclude this blog entry! Hopefully I won't ever have to begin writing the sequel!